Asked by Anonymous

Hi :) what's your heritage/roots, and are you christian?

Both answers can be found in my FAQs, dear. :) Check it out if you’d like! 

Asked by Anonymous

Finaly sara! U so beautyful! U had cyber with me in omegle. I will make an tumblr for u. I going in ontario. We're we met?

Haha, what on earth? I don’t use omegle!

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Asked by Anonymous

I've heard chinchillas are very high maintenance, do you find that yours is?

No, not at all! Actually, I heard the opposite - they’re extremely low maintenance pets. As long as you provide food, water, a nice big cage, toys, dust baths, and some lovin’, they’re all good!

Asked by Anonymous

I feel like everyone is always asking for your advise on here, but no one ever asks how YOU are doing! So, love; how is life in your world? school keeping you busy? what have you been up to lately?

That’s really thoughtful, thank you! I’m currently suffering from a really bad cold, but other than that, things are going great. University is really starting to gear up so I’m quite busy, but I still find time for things I enjoy. :) I started watching Sex And The City a little while ago, and I’m already on season 4! How are you? x

Asked by Anonymous

what do you usually wear when you go out to a dance club or bar?

It depends on my mood, the place we’re going to, the weather, and a few other factors. Sometimes dark wash skinny jeans, a nice top, a blazer, and heeled tall boots, sometimes a dress, sometimes a top and a skirt, etc. Actually if you check out my instagram, you can see for yourself! I post ootd/ootn’s sometimes. :) instagram.com/saradujour

Asked by Anonymous

Do you get sick with many messages? I wanna feel it. LOL

No, not at all! I love getting messages, and I feel very lucky to get as many as I do - I like talking to you guys! :)

Asked by Anonymous

I hope you dont mind me asking but do you have a job and if so what do you do? :)

I’m in my fourth and final year of university, and I don’t work while in school, apart from the occasional freelance design job. :)

Asked by Anonymous

Do you like the book Great Expectations?

I’ve not read it yet, so I don’t know!

Asked by Anonymous

Dear Sara, my friend told me recently that a guy likes me. Is it bad that I realized I liked him after I found out he liked me?

I don’t think it’s bad, but I would wonder whether you have genuine feelings for him, for who he is as a person, or whether you just like the idea of someone liking you.

Asked by Anonymous

Sara Darling, how have you been? anyway I've come to you because n-iaise (mercurieux(.)tumblr(.)com) I think is going through a very difficult time, she is wanting to commit suicide and is feeling quite worthless. I though I might ask you to drop her a kind hearted message, maybe a message from someone as lovely and beautiful as you might help her. I hope you won't mind doing this, but all if fine if you do not wish too. Have a lovely day

Thank you for the heads up! I just wrote her a long message - I encourage all of you to do the same, and I dearly hope she changes her mind.

Asked by Anonymous

Spam Sara with questions tonight haha but you're always so sweet and eloquent and I don't know who to else to talk to right now... but I was just dumped by my boyfriend who I have been best friends and dated for a few years now. We haven't talked since it happened and it has just been very difficult for me. I was in love with him and it was clear to everyone that he was in love with me but one of the things he said that night was that he wasn't in love, among many other things. I just feel lost.

Haha thank you! I’m really sorry that happened to you! :( *long distance hug* If it was obvious to you and everyone around you that he was in love with you, then he probably just said that in a moment of anger, to hurt you. Try not to take it to heart. Don’t worry, someone better will come along soon enough - you are wonderful! :)

Asked by Anonymous

Hi, you don't have to answer this and please don't get offended or anything, but with all this relationship advice you're giving, it makes me wonder, how far have you gone with a guy? Like what base?

Sorry, that’s private. 

Asked by Anonymous

Hi Sara. I hope you can help me with your advice :) So I like this guy, he is nice and everything. We have one thing in common which is our one favorite band. We had a really long talk about this one band and he was amazed by how i know so much. When we're out with our friends he constantly walk near me and try to talk to me but idk if he's interested or not. Sometimes i'm afraid to greet him first too. It's really confusing. Sho what do i do? :(

I can’t tell you whether or not he likes you from that alone - and I think until he tells you he does or asks you on a date, you can’t be sure either. Don’t be afraid to greet him, though. There’s nothing wrong with being friendly and saying hi! Just act naturally and be yourself, that’s all! :)

Asked by Anonymous

Hi Sara. I'm 16 years old, and I've held myself from liking a guy unlike most of the teenage population. More recently, I've found myself liking this one kid in my grade. He's really nice, funny, smart, and plays the same sport as I. I have 2 dilemmas in which I was hoping you'd be able to help me with. a) How do I show him that I express and interest for him without coming on as the "creeper" type. b) How can I make conversation with him? I usually find myself at loss of words. Thanks!

Hello there! I think you should just try to be yourself. As in, the calm, relaxed, friendly version of yourself. And if he likes you, he’ll do something about it! As for conversation, when you’re with the right person, conversation should just flow naturally. You shouldn’t have to worry about which topics to bring up or what to say next. It just happens by itself! :) Hope it works out for you two! x

Asked by Anonymous

I kind of like this guy, but I haven't told anyone because I'm not sure about my feelings for him. I don't talk to him that much, but I have friends who are friends with him, so he does kind of know me, and our personalities really match. Is that a good or bad thing? I get all nervous when he's around, but I don't know... should I just move on?

I think that if you’re not sure whether you like someone, you probably don’t. In my experience, and the experiences of those I know, when you like someone, it’s kind of all-consuming, and you certainly know. 

It’s possible you just have a teeny tiny crush on him, which may be fleeting, and probably not worth pursuing.